Genuine listening requires that you willingly bear witness to what someone else needs to say while simultaneously sparing them of your own solution, defense, dismissal, alternative reality, rebuttal, counterpoint, comparable story or more extreme example. This kind of listening is a very "active" part to play in a conversation. You have to believe for those moments that none of the things you might say could possibly be as valuable as hearing someone out. You may need to employ every ounce of your strength of character to actually pay attention and not butt-in with your own bit. That kind of attention paid to another is powerful medicine. - Gil Hedley The following is an excerpt from my book, Letting in the Dog, Opening Hearts and Minds to a Deeper Understanding. The book speaks to intuitive communication with dogs, but understand that it can also speak to all species. Before I became an animal communicator myself, my opinion of the practice may be similar to that of many readers. I was open to the idea, albeit with a certain amount of skepticism. I’ve heard stories of people who had employed the services of a professional animal communicator and were amazed. They had been doubtful at first, but the communicator told them things about their animal that they couldn’t possibly have known. They asked, “How could she have known that?” At that point, they became believers. Before I started studying animal communication, I’d never had anyone do a reading with one of my animals. My experience was somewhat the opposite of stories like those described above. In my studies, I began doing readings with my online study group. Upon having the facts from my reading verified by the pet’s owner, I would ask, “How could I possibly have known that?” At that point, I became a believer.
I hope these tips will help you achieve a deeper connection to your companion animal, and also remember: Connect with me to connect with your animal!
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With the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, I've been reflecting on the deep gratitude I have for the companion animals in my life, past and present. In the fast-paced whirlwind of our daily lives, it's easy to overlook the profound impact that animals have on our well-being and spiritual growth. As an animal communicator, I've been blessed with the privilege of witnessing the depth of connection between humans and their beloved companions. This journey has not only enriched my understanding of our animal friends but has also deepened my gratitude for the roles they play in our lives. Cultivating Mindfulness through Animal Companions: Our animal friends have an uncanny ability to ground us in the present moment. Whether it's a cat's gentle purring or a dog's eagerly wagging tail, their simple presence reminds us to appreciate life's little joys. As an animal communicator, I often encourage my clients to embrace this mindfulness and find solace in the tranquility of their pet's company. Teaching Us the Art of Unconditional Love: One of the most profound lessons animals impart is the concept of unconditional love. They accept us without judgment, embracing our flaws and celebrating our victories. In my years of working with animals,(especially in my career as a professional dog trainer) I've witnessed countless examples of this unwavering affection, which serves as a poignant reminder of the beauty in acceptance. Fostering Empathy and Compassion: Our animal companions have a unique way of tapping into our empathetic nature. Through understanding their needs, fears, and desires, we learn to extend our compassion not only to them but to the world at large. This newfound empathy can lead to more fulfilling relationships with both animals and fellow humans. Offering Mirrors to Our Souls: Animals are mirrors that reflect our innermost emotions and energies. They respond to our moods, absorb our stress, and celebrate our joys. As an animal communicator and professional dog trainer, I guide my clients in recognizing these subtle reflections and using them as a gateway to self-discovery and personal growth. Bridging the Communication Gap: Through my work at The Animalspeak, I've witnessed the transformative power of effective communication with animals. The connection forged through understanding their language, whether verbal or non-verbal, opens up new avenues of trust and intimacy. This bridge of communication is the cornerstone of the deep, meaningful relationships we strive for with our animal companions. In the tapestry of life, our animal companions are threads of unwavering support, love, and wisdom. They enrich our existence in ways we may not always acknowledge, but their impact is undeniable. As an animal communicator and certified professional dog trainer, my mission is to help others recognize and cherish these invaluable connections. Together, let us embrace gratitude for the profound gift of companionship that animals bring to our lives, and may we continue to learn and grow alongside them. Connect with me to connect with your animal, and let's embark on this beautiful journey of understanding and gratitude, side by side. Embracing the Winter Wonderland: |
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